Ok, my hair isn't blonde, but you get the idea.
Today, it looked like this after blowing it dry (That's CJ. He wanted his picture taken, too!):
Big E took this picture and our camera is sucky if you aren't in really good light You can't even tell the wall is chocolate brown! (The white above my head is chair railing.) But you can see my hair is NOT frizzy, puffy or big (unfortunately, I can't say the same about my face!). All without a flat iron.
Here are my products that I purchased. This is what $165 (including tax) can get you at Ulta! The hairdryer is an Ultra Chi by Chi. It's currently on sale for $129.95. I also use a Chi flat iron (although now that I have this awesome hair dryer, I will be using it a lot less!) and would not use any other flat iron on my hair. I love it so much, I actually have two of them! It is also a little pricey ($150 or so), but as I discovered from trying some lower end flat irons, just like with the hair dryer, buying a high quality one does make a difference!